People Pleasers Anonymous

Ever feel like everybody wants or needs something from you? No matter what you do it’s never enough and more is desired and EXPECTED? Nobody remembers what you’ve done for them in the past, recent or long past. They just scream for more NOW. It’s frustrating to the point of insanity if you’re a people pleaser.

A few days ago I found myself feeling pressured because two people I care about both wanted more from me than I could give. My insides churned and I wasn’t sure how to handle it. I talked to God about it and realized He wanted me to shed a bit more of my people pleasing skin. The process can be lengthy and painful.

People pleasing sounds like you’re being nice and doing the right thing, especially as a Christian. You’re aiming to be God’s faithful servant to all who cross your path, right? Perhaps a super human could do this but not you or I.

Jesus who was God yet human when He walked the earth and now seated at the right hand of God, didn’t please everyone. A lot of His own people longed for Him to free them from oppressive Roman rule.  He actually had the power to do that. But He didn’t. He didn’t please them.

He also didn’t please those suffering from hunger or debilitating diseases. Again, He had the power to end world hunger and obliterate sickness and disease but He didn’t. He fed and healed a great many but not all. Jesus was not a people pleaser.


Who are you trying to please?

Jesus was on a mission from His Father and it did not include pleasing all the people all the time, did it? So why do some of us strive to accomplish that wearisome task?


What are your thoughts on people pleasing? Are you like me, caught in its trap? We can’t let this weight hinder us from FLURISHING.

This subject may need further probing? Stay tuned.

“For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.” Galatians 1:10 English Standard Version

Shine on. . .
karan k


10 thoughts on “People Pleasers Anonymous”

  1. I’m a people pleaser too & the more Autoimmune Diseases I get, the more I need to slow down. You’re words of wisdom are always appreciated!! God has blessed you with a wonderful way to reach people & spread His message! Thank you for this blog, it always reminds me to keep Him first and things will work out better, maybe not easier, but better when He is the Lird of your life!!! ☺️

  2. You know I’m a part of people pleasers anonymous lol! This is great , an important topic. I love your perspective and how you shed light on the ways Jesus was not a people pleasure…very interesting ! Thank you for that verse at the end too…definitely one I need to memorize or read often. I look forward to the next post on this! 🙂

  3. Great words! Family, friends demands more than we can give and are often criticized for not being better. We groan to please, but the one I want to please is the Lord.

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